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No to Violence works with men who use family violence, and the sector that supports them to change their abusive and violent behaviour. 

Men’s Referral Service

The Men’s Referral Service is the national counselling, information and referral service for men who use violence and abuse to change their behaviour.

Sector resources & training

Support and resources for people who work with men who use violence.

Advocacy & media

Read about our advocacy and peak body activities, including work in the media.

About family violence

Family violence is a pattern of abusive and controlling behaviour that can take many different forms.

About No to Violence

No to Violence specialises in working with men to change their violent behaviour to keep women, children and communities safer.

Men’s Behaviour Change programs

Men’s Behaviour Change Program providers are available to take your calls, offer a service and link you with other agencies depending on your individual circumstances.

Work with us

If you are interested in being part of the movement to end men’s use of family violence, please keep an eye on this page for opportunities.

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6 days ago

No to Violence
Some men who abuse their partners, ex-partners or family members blame them for causing it to happen. They say it’s their partner or ex-partner’s fault that they lost control, shouted or smashed things, withheld money for spending, or shut them off from their family and friends. Rather than taking responsibility for their own actions, they blame others for their abusive behaviour. But being abusive is a choice. It’s not caused by anyone else. And people who are abusive need to take responsibility for their behaviour. If any of this sounds familiar, the Men’s Referral Service can help. Operated by No to Violence, the Men’s Referral Service offers trained counsellors who can work with you to provide free, non-judgemental support to help you understand your behaviour and what you can do to change. Whether you are being abusive, have been abusive in the past or are struggling with feelings about being abusive, our counsellors will listen to your story. Call 1300 766 491 or visit ntv.org.au/mrs/ ... See MoreSee Less
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1 week ago

No to Violence
You don’t lose control with your boss, do you? You don’t lose control with your mates. You don’t lose control with other people you need to respect you, like you… love you?So you shouldn’t lose control with your partner, wife or family member. You shouldn’t be violent, shout, throw or smash things, or threaten to do these things. You shouldn’t put them down or call them names. If you do any of this, you’ve made a choice to do it. Doing any of these behaviours is actually an attempt to control someone else. This is a form of domestic and family violence – and it’s wrong. If any of this sounds familiar, the Men’s Referral Service can help. Operated by No to Violence, the Men’s Referral Service offers trained counsellors who can work with you to provide free, non-judgemental support to help you understand your behaviour and what you can do to change. Whether you are being abusive, have been abusive in the past or are struggling with feelings about being abusive, our counsellors will listen to your story. Call 1300 766 491 or visit ntv.org.au/mrs/ ... See MoreSee Less
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